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As Latinas, we often face unique challenges in our journey to move at our own pace in our careers. From the moment we graduate, the pressure to succeed can feel overwhelming. We see our peers landing dream jobs, climbing the corporate ladder, and achieving milestones that we might still be working towards. It’s easy to feel left behind, but it’s important to remember that everyone’s path is different. Here are some things to consider:
Watching others Succeed
Seeing others succeed before us can also be disheartening. While others land jobs or start businesses, social media often paints a picture-perfect image of success, but it’s crucial to remember that these snapshots don’t tell the whole story. Everyone has their own struggles and setbacks, even if they aren’t visible to the outside world. It’s okay to move at your own pace and celebrate your victories, no matter how small they may seem.
Family Expectation
One of the biggest challenges we face is family expectations. Many of us come from tight-knit families that rely on us for support, both emotionally and financially. This can create a sense of guilt if we choose to focus on our careers rather than helping out at home. It’s a delicate balance to strike, and it’s okay to set boundaries that allow us to pursue our professional goals while still being there for our loved ones.
Motherhood
Another significant hurdle is the decision to pause our careers for motherhood. This is a deeply personal choice and one that comes with its own set of challenges. Choosing to stay at home to raise children can sometimes make us feel like we’re putting our careers on hold indefinitely. On the other hand, being a working mom comes with its own set of struggles, such as finding reliable childcare and managing work-life balance. It’s essential to remember that there is no right or wrong choice here; it’s about what works best for you and your family.
Finding Support
Lastly, it’s important to find a support system that understands and encourages your journey. Whether it’s a mentor, a group of like-minded amigas, or a professional network, having people who believe in you can make all the difference. They can offer guidance, provide a sounding board for your ideas, and remind you that you’re not alone in your struggles.
Moving at your own pace in your career is about finding what works best for you. It’s about setting your own goals, defining your own success, and being kind to yourself along the way. Remember, it’s your journey, and it’s perfectly okay to take the scenic route. Embrace your unique path, and don’t be afraid to move at your own Paso.
Dr. Patty Jiménez is the Founder of Recetas. She obtained 2 Masters in Theology and Ministry and a Doctorate in Ministry specializing in Latinx theology and ministry. She has over 27 years experience in Catholic Ministry and is a spiritual director and training as a wellness coach.
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